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Showing posts with label Pregnancy. Show all posts

Friday, January 4, 2013

Abortion, Sex Ed, Birth Control etc

Abortion seems to be a subject of conversation lately, and honestly if people where more responsible then it wouldn't be an issue. However it's obvious that people are not responsible enough to use a condom or birth control. 

In any case, I agree with the whole "it's her body, her choice".  So i guess that means I'm pro-choice. 

I think abortion is necessary. I think it gives us all something to argue about, something to help us decide on who to elect, on who we agree with or disagree with. I think the people who are so pro-life need to go the inner city, and highly populated cities and visit foster homes and group homes. Go look at all of the children there.  Why not do something to help them? 

So many children who live majority of their lives in the system will develop verbal,mental and social problems. Many will be physically and verbally abused, and neglected, but I don't see people with their signs demanding things for them! I don't see people throwing their bibles at the system or the abusive foster homes!

I know it's a touchy subject, because everyone and their mother knows someone who has had an abortion or who decided against having one or whatever. I get it, everyone knows someone who has dealt closely with abortion. 

I don't care who this offends, or who decides to glow a gasket because of what I'm about to write.

I think we need to stop focusing so much attention on abortion and whether its right or wrong. Whether is ethically, religiously or morally wrong. We need to focus more on Sex Education. 

Kids now a days are getting sex ed in elementary school. Think about that, elementary school. in elementary school my main focus was on beating Lauren and Taylor at Tetherball, doing a certain amount of flips on the monkey bars, passing my multiplication test so i could get a cherry on my ice cream sunday at the ice cream party(each number time table u passed on a timed test you got a piece of the ice cream sunday on the wall, at the end of a certain time period whatever was on your sunday was what u got at the ice cream party), not on sex. I thought boys were gross and mean. They were just kids i wanted to beat at football, and other sports. I used to kick them and beat them up for being so mean to girls. I had a crush once in elementary school, and to me a crush was just thinking he was nice and that i wanted him to be my friend and sit with me at lunch, be my partner on partner projects in class, play basketball with me, not to have sex with him or make babies.

Sex education should be more about the negative affects of sex than "its how babies are made" and the whole "if you have sex your going to hell". Show them pictures of different STD's. Show them the oozing graphic pictures of what their "junk" will look like. Tell them how painful some of the diseases can be. Emphasize that some of the things you get from having sex, you cant just wash off. Penicillin shots are painful(I got one when i was sick with an sinus infection and a virus and the other antibiotics i took for a week didn't make me better). Show them, hell scare them if that's what it takes. I know when i have kids I'm going to scare the crap out of them. I won't lie to them but i will scare them. "If you have sex you can get this STD and this STD and your junk will turn colors and hurt and look nasty". 

We need to focus on making birth control more available to girls. Obviously condoms aren't working. making them more available, i believe, wont do anything. condoms have been available in bathrooms, doctors offices and free clinics for so many years now and yet we are still having this problem. Sell birth control over the counter but require them to talk to the pharmacist so they know how to use it properly. Inform them that if they are taking it, and start taking antibiotics that they can get pregnant(oh don't believe that? well my mom took birth control and antibiotics...and now I'm here writing this, so its true). 

There also needs to be some blame on the parents. It's shouldn't be the schools responsibility to teach every child about sex, and what sex is, that's the parents job. School is a place for education, not sex ed. they are teachers not doctors. Kids are supposed to learn about their bodies and ask their parents questions, or their doctors, not their teachers. Most teachers when i was growing up, if they were asked a question like that they were told kindly that they should ask their parents. If they couldn't ask their parents they asked the school nurse or the health teacher. My health teacher in High School(required semester of health class) had a question box. it was passed around at the beginning of class and during class or at the end she would answer question, all asked anonymously. Some questions were about family problems, some asked for advice and a lot were sex questions or body questions. I still,to this day,feel its the parents responsibility to answer these questions for their kids.  Come on parents take a little responsibility(like you always tell us kids) and be the adult, talk to your kids!!


Monday, December 31, 2012

Kim Kardashi-Hoe (Explicit)

Ok so i know many people watch 'Keeping Up With The Kardashians'. I am guilty, i admit i have watched the show myself for a couple month period. I am not proud of that but I'm here to piss some people off with my mind rambles.

Lets all think for a moment, don't hurt yourselves i just said a moment.

Why is Kim famous? Why is she all over the news?
1. Her dad was OJ's lawyer
2. She banged Ray J (Brandy's little brother) and the tape was "leaked"
3.Her obnoxiously large ass
4. She was in Playboy

Hmmmmm....Not good enough in my eyes. She might as well be a Porn star.  Everyone take note, SHE didn't do anything but bang a famous girls little brother, and take off her clothes for pictures!!

Yes dish the arguments that she is a designer, and has clothing stores etc etc blah blah Bullshit. Save it. Plenty of people can open clothing stores, and design clothes. She had the money but without the publicity from her "sexcapades" or her Dad she wouldn't be shit. she would just be another big assed girl who lived in Cali.(Trust me her ass isn't as unique as everyone thinks it is). Plus who Gives a shit if her ass is real or not? Who cares?!? Its like asking about fake/enhanced breasts. No one cares!

She is all over the news for being with Kanye and being pregnant with his baby.(I aint sayin she a gold digger..lol) But does anyone remember the athletic careers she has ruined?? She was with Reggie Bush and what happened? He played like shit. Miles Austin. Played like shit. Then She was messing around with Halle Berry's ex Gabriel Aubry. (Apparently he took a couple steps backwards). Last but not least we all remember the wedding. It was plastered all over the news, ever commercial, on Twitter and on Facebook. She married Kris Humphries. Then 3 months later, they decide to go their separate ways and put an end to it.

ARE YOU SERIOUS??

Publicity publicity publicity. That's it. She didn't do anything note worthy. She didn't find a cure for anything. She didn't write a book(I'd be surprised if she could even read a book that didn't have pictures). She didn't save lives. She didn't Defend OJ. She didn't do Shit! She probably never will.

"Why is the title Kardashi-Hoe? She isn't a Hoe!"

If you know the reference you will understand:
A:"I am not a whore"
B:"Ok Ok you're not a whore, but you are wearing a whores uniform."

If she acts like a hoe, talks like a hoe, she is probably a hoe!!! If you don't believe me Snoop Dogg agrees:


Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Babies Having Babies (old)

Sept. 19, 2012


Babies Having Babies

this is a sensitive subject for some, in my opinion because they feel like they are being criticized for their actions, and honestly yes u are being criticized and judged.people are looking down on you and talking bad about you, and you did it to yourself. when you decide to be irresponsible and get married before you graduate from high school or have a baby before you graduate from high school, people are going to judge because its not right, its irresponsible.

my dad told me about the ONE girl who was pregnant when he was in high school. yes, i said that right ONE! i graduated with a girl who had a baby before she graduated and one who walked across the stage pregnant. my dad said this ONE girl was broken up about it, she cried as if her mother had died. it was literally the end of the world. ONE girl while he was in High School. there are at least 2 girl starting High School this year who have 4 yr olds. yes 4 yr olds. when someone delivers a 10 yr olds baby and an 11 yr olds baby..not normal..(yes consensual as far as i know)

Sex Ed, i got Sex Ed in junior high. kids now a days are getting it in elementary school. in my opinion its not working. Now in our society this big "mistake" or irresponsible action is glorified on T.V. shows and its like girls are striving to have babies rather than finish high school, or go to college. i honestly think its stupid that there are so many girls who are having babies. i mean LOVE doesnt stand for Legs Open Very Easily.I understand the process of makin a baby is fun and blah blah...details...blah blah but HELLO!!! have u ever heard of a condom???? Or taking the pill?? or both??

almost 50% of teen moms are on food stamps. 48% of those kids born to teen parents are more likely to be a teen parent as well.

so wtf ppl?? ur adding to the number of ppl in this country who are dependent on government funding, your creating more irresponsible,immature parents. is that what we really want??

everyone can think im a bitch but i dont care. i graduated from high school and i am not married, i have no children. my mom had me at 19,almost every woman in my family has had a baby before they were 20 or right at 20. which places them just outta high school. meaning i have an almost 50% chance of becoming a teen mom.

I chose to be responsible. i chose to graduate from high school without a ring on my finger&without a baby on my hip. 

if ur offended oh well..maybe if u had made better choices, been a lil more responsible u wouldnt feel so offended. i know plenty of people who im close to, best friends with and more, their parents where teen parents. it doesnt mean ur baby is a mistake whats done is done.