5yr old terrorist

A 5 year old girl was suspended from kindergarten for telling a classmate she was going to shoot her with a toy gun. The Mount Carmel Area Elementary School suspended the girl for 10 days for making a "terroristic threat". the punishment was later reduced to 2 days suspension. The girls family has hired a lawyer and is fighting the suspension. The article then asks, in wake of the Sandy Hook shooting is the schools reaction appropriate or does the suspension  go to far?

The "gun" this little girl was "threatening" with is a plastic Hello Kitty gun that shoots bubbles. Thats right Bubbles. In my opinion the suspension is going to far. The girl is 5 years old and most likely doesnt even understand the concept of shooting someone to harm them. Most 5 year olds have trouble understanding death let alone harmful actions. 

At that age kids are still learning about all of that. They are learning about how their actions and feelings affect other people. Learning how to use their words and be kind with their words. 

I highly doubt the student she "threatened" was all broken up about it, crying to a teacher that this little girl threatened her with a gun, or was going to shoot her. In elementary school kids play game where they shoot each other all the time, no harm no foul. No one actually gets shot, or hurt or killed.

The school over reacted and blow things out of proportion. I could see them calling her parents and voicing their concerns in light of the Sandy Hook shooting and how her behavior or words were inappropriate. Sitting the girl down and talking to her about it. Not suspending her.

I threatened a girl in school once. I was in Junior High in California. I didn't even directly threaten this girl. I was in the locker room and stated that i wanted to shoot her (i didn't even say a name) in the face for every one of her freckles.(she had a lot of freckles). One of my friends who happened to be a mutual friend over heard me and asked who. I told her who. The next day i was called into the vice principles office and was suspended for a day,given 2 weeks detention,and i had to write the girl an apology. The girl who over heard me went home and told her mother what i said and she called the girls mother who then called the school and threw a fit. 

Thats at the age of 13 that i was suspended a day and given detention, and the written apology. This little girl is 5 and she was suspended longer than i was. 

Is this really what the world is coming to? that we are going to push kids who play shooting games? 

What next? Are we going to stop manufacturing gun toys? water guns? super soakers? paint ball guns? bubble guns? suction cup dart guns?

We all just need to calm down with the gun thing. The girl was 5. Give her a break.

Not to me, Not from me but it hurts me.

Finding things from someones past can mess with a person. Whether they found it on accident or on purpose, there are things that once they are found they rot your mind like a cancer. It's not to me, ot from me, but from someone i love to someone in their past. Its from awhile ago but the fact that it was there, still somewhere to be found scares me. I think of the past, but i dont have it lingering near me, or anywhere i can go and reminise. Its all the past. I shouldnt care, i should let it affect me. The amount of effort and words that were more begging than conversation bother me. I cant delete it, its not mine t delete. My only question now is, Why do they still have it? Do they go back and look at it? Why am i so worried about it?

MIRAME A LOS OJOS Y DIME Q VES
LAGRIMAS CAIDAS Y UNA BELLA MUJER
Q YA NO TIENE CORAZON POR QUE
YO SE LO ROBE Y LO ROMPI EN DOS
DEJANDO LE UNA HERIDA Q NUNCA SANO Y UN VACIO
LLENA DE DOLOR YA NO CREO EN EL AMOR
BUT LET ME TELL U ABOUT MI LIBRO DE AMOR
ONCE UPON A TIME I MET THIS GIRL THAT CHANGED MY WHOLE LIFE SHE BLIND FOLDED MY EYES WIT HER BEAUTY AND SMILE
SHE HAD FULL CONTROL OF MY MIND BODY AND HEART
COULDNT STAY ALIVE IF SHE WASNT BY MY SIDE
STUCK IN THIS PASSION FULL OF BLAZE
I WAS SO AMAZE THAT I HAD FALLEN SO DEEP IN LOVE
WIT A GURL I HAD BARELY MET
GOT HYPNOTIZE EVERYTIME SHE LOOKED INTO MY EYES
FELT THE ADRENALINE RUSH EVERYTIME OUR LIPS TOUCHED
SHE HAD ME SCREAMING 2 THA TOP OF MY LUNGS
WHEN OUR BODIES TOUCHED AND MADE LOVE
TELLING YOU GORDA TU Y YO ESTAREMOS UNIDOS POR VIDA
Y POR TI DARIA YO TODA MI VIDA Y QUIEN LO DIRIA
THAT THIS LOVE WILL HAVE A TRAGIC END
LIKE R0MEO N JULIET
LOVE AND GUNZ
BOTH CAN SAVE UR LIFE OR GET U KILLED
U REL0AD THA GUN WIT BULLETS
AND THA HEART WIT FULL OF EMOTIONS
AND A BR0KEN HEART IT COULD TEAR U APART
PULL DA TRIGGER AND IT CAN GET U KILL
BUT HERES WERE THA REAL PART OF THA STORY BEGINS
THINGS CHANGED WARM FEELINGS TURNED COLD
AND MY HEART FROZE 4RM AND OVERDOSE
OF DECEPTION AND THA GUY THAT PROMISE YOU THE WORLD
HAD OTHER PLANS I JUST WANTED TO GO
AND LEFT YOU ALL ALONE WITH NO ONE 2 HOLD
A MILLION THINGS WERE RUSHIN THRU MY HEAD
MEMORIES OF A LOVE THAT WAS REALLY MEANT 2 BE AND
MY PAIN WAS GETTIN WORSE AND IT HURT IT MORE AND MORE
IT FELT LIKE A MILLION KNIVES HAVE SHANKED
THRU MY BROKEN HEART AND LEFT ME FULL OF SCARS
MIND SO UNSTABLE I WASNT ABLE 2 STAND
I FELT SO WEAK I COULDNT SPEAK OR BREATH
SO I GRABBED THA GUN AND AIM IT 2 MY HEAD
AND SAID FUCK LOVE I RATHER BE DEAD
BUT BEFORE I COULD PULLED THA TRIGGER
MY WHOLE LIFE STARTED FLASHIN BEFORE MY EYES
AND I STARTED 2 CRY N FELL 2 MY KNEES
THREW LA PISTOLA ON THA FLOOR
AN D ALL THESE EVIL THOUGHTS TOOK CONTROL
OVER MY MIND AND SOUL AND CORAZON LIKE A CURSE AND
I FELT POSSESED NOW IM ON A MISSION TO GET YOU BACK
WHO SAID LOVE COULDNT KILL AND GIVE YOU THE CHILLS
CUZ THERE A THIN LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE
AND I PASSED THA LINE WHEN I BROKE YOU HEART AND LEFT YOU ALL ALONE AND PLAYED WIT YOUR CORAZ0N
NOW IM TRYIN TO ACT ALL TOUGH LIKE I DONT GIVE A FUCK BUT LOVE IS PAIN AND THE TRUTH HURTS TO KNOW THAT I LOST YOU FOR GOOD
BUT THIS IS WHERE THE STORY GETS FULL OF SUSPENCE
AND THA DRAMA NEVER ENDS I GOT THIS PAIN IN MY CHEST I CANT EVEN REST
I COMMITED A CRIME WHEN I PLAYED TRICKS ON YOUR MIND
I KILLED YOU INSIDE WHEN I TOLD YOU ALL DOES LIES
THAT I WAS DOWN TO BE WIT YOU 4R LIFE
AND LEFT YOU ALL EMPTY INSIDE I TOOK ALL YOUR PRIDE
I REMEMBER THE DAY THAT I STOOD FACE 2 FACE WIT THE GIRL OF MY DRAMS
AND THE BITCH THAT TOOK YOU AWAY OH WAT A SHAME
EMOTIONS SO STRONG MY HEART WAS FULL OF HATE IM
TIRED OF PLAYING GAMES
BUT THA TABLES TURN NOW IM THE ONE THE ONE THAT I BE MISSIN AND WANNA BE KISSIN ASKIN YOU 4R MERCY
ME ON MY KNEES BEGGIN 4R A CHANCE AND FORGIVENESS
BUT I BETTA QUIT IT CUZ YOU AINT LISTENIN
2 MY BULLSHIT NO MORE YA NO TENGO CORAZON
TRATE DE BORRAR TU NOMBRE Y MEMORIA PERO FUE IMPOSSIBLE CUZ U LEFT A BRUISE THAT COULD NEVER BE CURED
YA NO QUIERO SABER NADA DE OTRO AMOR ESO SE ACABO
CUZ YOU YOU HAD ME LOCKED UP IN THESE WALLS BEHIND BARS
A PRISONER OF LOVE DOING TIME 4R A CRIME THAT I COMMITED
JANEL I REALLY DO LOVE YOU A AM SORRY FOR WHAT I DID YOU SAID IT YOURSELF IT HAS BEEN 1 YEAR THAT WE BROKE UP AND IM STILL HERE BEGGING AND CRYING FOR THAT LAST CHANCE TE AMO GORDA

Abortion, Sex Ed, Birth Control etc

Abortion seems to be a subject of conversation lately, and honestly if people where more responsible then it wouldn't be an issue. However it's obvious that people are not responsible enough to use a condom or birth control. 

In any case, I agree with the whole "it's her body, her choice".  So i guess that means I'm pro-choice. 

I think abortion is necessary. I think it gives us all something to argue about, something to help us decide on who to elect, on who we agree with or disagree with. I think the people who are so pro-life need to go the inner city, and highly populated cities and visit foster homes and group homes. Go look at all of the children there.  Why not do something to help them? 

So many children who live majority of their lives in the system will develop verbal,mental and social problems. Many will be physically and verbally abused, and neglected, but I don't see people with their signs demanding things for them! I don't see people throwing their bibles at the system or the abusive foster homes!

I know it's a touchy subject, because everyone and their mother knows someone who has had an abortion or who decided against having one or whatever. I get it, everyone knows someone who has dealt closely with abortion. 

I don't care who this offends, or who decides to glow a gasket because of what I'm about to write.

I think we need to stop focusing so much attention on abortion and whether its right or wrong. Whether is ethically, religiously or morally wrong. We need to focus more on Sex Education. 

Kids now a days are getting sex ed in elementary school. Think about that, elementary school. in elementary school my main focus was on beating Lauren and Taylor at Tetherball, doing a certain amount of flips on the monkey bars, passing my multiplication test so i could get a cherry on my ice cream sunday at the ice cream party(each number time table u passed on a timed test you got a piece of the ice cream sunday on the wall, at the end of a certain time period whatever was on your sunday was what u got at the ice cream party), not on sex. I thought boys were gross and mean. They were just kids i wanted to beat at football, and other sports. I used to kick them and beat them up for being so mean to girls. I had a crush once in elementary school, and to me a crush was just thinking he was nice and that i wanted him to be my friend and sit with me at lunch, be my partner on partner projects in class, play basketball with me, not to have sex with him or make babies.

Sex education should be more about the negative affects of sex than "its how babies are made" and the whole "if you have sex your going to hell". Show them pictures of different STD's. Show them the oozing graphic pictures of what their "junk" will look like. Tell them how painful some of the diseases can be. Emphasize that some of the things you get from having sex, you cant just wash off. Penicillin shots are painful(I got one when i was sick with an sinus infection and a virus and the other antibiotics i took for a week didn't make me better). Show them, hell scare them if that's what it takes. I know when i have kids I'm going to scare the crap out of them. I won't lie to them but i will scare them. "If you have sex you can get this STD and this STD and your junk will turn colors and hurt and look nasty". 

We need to focus on making birth control more available to girls. Obviously condoms aren't working. making them more available, i believe, wont do anything. condoms have been available in bathrooms, doctors offices and free clinics for so many years now and yet we are still having this problem. Sell birth control over the counter but require them to talk to the pharmacist so they know how to use it properly. Inform them that if they are taking it, and start taking antibiotics that they can get pregnant(oh don't believe that? well my mom took birth control and antibiotics...and now I'm here writing this, so its true). 

There also needs to be some blame on the parents. It's shouldn't be the schools responsibility to teach every child about sex, and what sex is, that's the parents job. School is a place for education, not sex ed. they are teachers not doctors. Kids are supposed to learn about their bodies and ask their parents questions, or their doctors, not their teachers. Most teachers when i was growing up, if they were asked a question like that they were told kindly that they should ask their parents. If they couldn't ask their parents they asked the school nurse or the health teacher. My health teacher in High School(required semester of health class) had a question box. it was passed around at the beginning of class and during class or at the end she would answer question, all asked anonymously. Some questions were about family problems, some asked for advice and a lot were sex questions or body questions. I still,to this day,feel its the parents responsibility to answer these questions for their kids.  Come on parents take a little responsibility(like you always tell us kids) and be the adult, talk to your kids!!

Not My Dirty Laundry

I can't be quiet about it anymore. If you are planning on getting married to someone, don't you think you guys should be together longer than a year before getting married? I understand older people who have been married before, who have been around the block and have some common sense and knowledge under their belt getting married within or after a year. I know a couple that did this. I though it was stupid when they decided it but i was supportive because it wasn't my place to bitch or throw a fit, but....I'm airing out the dirty laundry. I wont use names but I'm done keeping it all inside and pretending to be OK with it.

What is marriage anyway? A piece of paper? A ring u wear on a specific finger?

I'm not anti-marriage. I want to get married one day, but I don't want to rush into it.

According to the Forest Institute of Professional Psychology, 50% of first marriages, 67% of second marriages and 74% of third marriages end in divorce. Now remind me again why everyone is in such a rush to get married??

Marriage is not something to be played with.

Wilt thou have this Man to thy wedded husband, to live together after God's ordinance in the holy estate of Matrimony? Wilt thou love him, comfort him, honour, and keep him in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all others, keep thee only unto him, so long as ye both shall live?

When you say "I do" After being asked whats above its a vow. Its not just words u agree to. Once these are said and you get your marriage license that doesn't mean you can get pissed off at your spouse and just up and decide to leave. You don't grab your stuff and disappear for a week and come back saying your sorry. You don't leave and say you want a divorce 3, 4, or 5 times within a year and then cry that he didn't fight for you, or make a scene for you. You are the ignorant one who decided to leave. You suck it up and work it out, you suck it up and deal with it. "running is the only thing i know" is not an excuse, it's a cop-out.

The fact that you left the first time, or even the second time shows that you are not serious about the commitment or the relationship.You hurt not only your spouse but everyone involved, their family, your family etc.Then after giving the final "I'm done i want a divorce" come crawling back and forth between your husband and an ex. By doing that you give your spouse the right to divorce you because you were unfaithful.

Weeks go by and things start to go bad with your ex, what do you do? You crawl back into your spouses life causing a tragic and heart wrenching incident that puts your spouses entire family on edge. Not just the family in the state but those out of state as well. "I didn't cause it" BULLSHIT!! You were talking to him about what happened. All of the bad. Putting all of the blame on him instead of on yourself. Its not shock that his family didn't want you informed, or there by his side.

Why would you be by his side? "Because he is my husband". Now he is, after he ends up in danger and fighting for his life. Why wasn't he your husband when you were banging your ex? Why wasn't he your husband when the thought of leaving came to mind? Why wasn't he your husband when you lied to everyone about living with your family when you left? He wasn't. You were using him, playing with his emotions. He cared more than you will ever know and more than he will ever show and you threw that away.

I know she will be pissed that i wrote this, but like she said to me "I was honest". I'm being honest now when I say the only reason I am nice to you, still talk to you or even kept you informed was because of a promise i made, and because of my dad. I promised if you two split up we would still be friends and against my better judgement i stayed your friend. Even when the only reason you talked to me was to ask questions about him. The only reason i kept you informed was because my dad told me to.

I find out they are getting back together. "This time till death". Isn't that the same promise you made when you got married? We will see how long it lasts this time.

Anyone reading please think about your choices. Getting married is not just something between you and the other person. It affects everyone around you, kids, friends, and family.

100 yr Old Couple

In China on December 28th of 2012 Shi Sifan and his wife Liu Yaogu celebrated their 100th birthdays. They have been together for 78 years and were born on the same day. 

Of course in China there are many people who are close to or are 100 yrs old. China even passed a law saying that people are to visit and care for their older family members. Shi Sifan and Liu Yaogu live with their family, right down to the great great grandchildren.

There's no doubt that i will be visiting and caring for my parents when they are old and cant do it themselves and they will see their grandchildren on a regular basis.

I don't think there could ever be a law in the US that stated we had to go visit and care for our elders. It just wouldn't happen. It would be another law broken by many that would just crown the prison system.

I can see it now:
"And why, Mr.Smith have you not visited your parents? Why haven't you been taking care of them?"

Then there's the fact that they have been together for 78 years. 78 YEARS!! How many couples now a days can say they were together 78 years? Look around! all of the couples you see now, do you honestly think they will be together 78 years from now? Also how many people around you will live to be 100? Not many. 

I honestly believe that every couple i see when i look around, or look on Facebook, or anywhere else for that matter, will not be together in 78 years. I'm in a relationship and i can't say that we will be together in 78 years.(I sure as hell hope we are though)

I like seeing older couples who have been together for 30+ years. My generation thinks that being with someone for a few years is a huge accomplishment. I know baby mama's who have stayed with their man for more than a few years. It doesn't mean anything. 

You want to see an actual relationship? See what actual love looks like?

Look at this couple, look at the couples who have been together for 30, 40+ years and are still happy. You can see it by the way they look at each other. It's the look  as if they haven't aged one bit. They look at each other in amazement as if they were still young kids who just started dating.

I applaud this couple and their achievement. I also want to wish them both a Happy 100th Birthday. I hope they spend many more years together. :) 

12/21/12

The worlds supposed to end! But i don't think so. I think everything will stay the same and nothing will change.

Does anyone know how many time the world has supposed to ended?
how many times its been predicted to end?
Hundreds!! Hundreds of times the world has supposed to ended, at least twice a year since we used B.C and A.D after the year.

Don't believe me? Google it! Look it up! Go to a library if you have to. (Libraries are those big buildings that are filled with books, magazines and newspapers in case you didn't know, but that's a topic for another day)

December 21st is just a day. Its going to be a regular Friday. People are still going to cut you off on the freeway. They are still going to go grocery shopping, go out to the clubs, go buy cigarettes and munchies.

The only things I think they will do different, at least here in Texas where i swear their idea of fun is drinking and watching their friends drink. Half of the people here will stock up on beer and liquor and prepare for the "End of the world". The other half will take their bibles with them everywhere they go and pray every hour or so and thank god for everything and anymore more than usual.

               There will still be:

• murders
• robberies
• pushy religious people
• governmental arguments and disagreements
• abusive parents
• starving and abandoned children here in the US not just in Africa and other countries
• problems in the Middle East
• Mentally ill persons in possession of guns and weapons
• Alcoholics and Drug addicts
• bad parenting and bad little children
• 5-10 yr olds with phones, i pods and way too much technology

Everyone just needs to calm down and stop worrying about how whether or not it will end. 

Sandy Hook Elementary Shooting

On 12/14/12 there was a massacre at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newton,Connecticut.
 The death toll? 26 Dead
Out of those 26 deaths are 20 children as young as 5 years old and as old as 10.
The shooter? 20 year old  Adam Lanza
He killed 20 children and 6 adults including the Principal and himself. He was said to have a personality disorder and was possibly Autistic.
In his vehicle they found 2 Pistols and a rifle, and that's not including the weapons he had inside the school with him.

To me this is an unbelievably tragic event.  According to CNN:

 "Police say Lanza killed his mother, Nancy, at her Newtown home before going to the school, where he primarily targeted two classrooms."

"With the death toll at 26, the massacre in Newtown is the second-deadliest school shooting in U.S. history, behind the 2007 Virginia Tech mass shooting that left 32 dead"

"Three weapons were recovered from the school on Friday: a semi-automatic .223 caliber rifle made by Bushmaster was found in a car in the school parking lot, and two pistols made by Glock and Sig Sauer were found with suspected gunman Lanza's body, a law enforcement source said previously."

"The weapons were legally purchased by Lanza's mother, said the official, who was not authorized to release details of the case to the media."

CNN also reported that its believed that Lanza killed his mother in her home before he went to the school.

In my mind I cant believe there are people out there who would target children. What kind of person are you to point your gun at an innocent child and pull the trigger? But he didnt kill just one child, he killed 20!! This event is sending the discussion of gun laws through the roof. "we need stricter gun laws". So that what? the people who are mentally unstable put a little more effort into getting one? making it harder to trace the guns they illegally possess?

 Others are going ape shit on mental health care. "maybe if he had the access to proper treatment" or "if it was as easy for mental health care patients to receive care as it is to get a gun.."..Fox News questioned whether or not his parents knew how much of a danger he was, when they asked people who knew him they described him as a "nerd" or "goth" and that "he didn't interact with others". So we have here a mentally unstable man who didnt socialize well with others and prefered to keep to himself, he gets ahold of his mothers guns, kills her and then goes and kills 20 children and 6 adults leaving one survivor(One survivor according to CNN).

Guns dont magically aim at people by themselves. Guns don't  miraculously decide to shoot women and children. The psychotic Mentally unstable people who get a hold of them do. Maybe instead of pointing the finger at the mental disease or the guns themselves that we point fingers at the man who pulled the trigger.

If the shooter has lived and gone to court whats to say he wouldnt have been executed anyway? The wouldnt determine it based on his actions, or te types of weapons he used. it would be determined based on his mental state, or whether or not he was mentally competent.

According to the Death Penalty Information Center:

Insanity or mental incompetency is a severe form of mental illness and is addressed separately by the legal system. Inmates who are insane, that is, so out of touch with reality that they do not know right from wrong and cannot understand their punishment or the purpose of it, are exempt from execution. The Supreme Court held in Ford v. Wainwright (477 U.S. 399 (1986)) that executing the insane is unconstitutional. However, if an inmate's mental competency has been restored, he or she can then be executed.  Inmates who are intellectually disabled (mentally retarded) also cannot be executed.  Inmates who are mentally ill, but not insane, have no such exemption

My heart goes out to all of the families, friends and anyone who was close to the victims of the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting. I am not a parent but this absolutely tragic event is unbelievable. I couldn't imagine getting the news that my little brother was killed in a shooting while at school. I cant imagine what it would be like to lose a child, especially after all of the different ways my parents made sure i realized that they loved me more than i could even know or understand.

There has been a Facebook made if you want more information, or if you would like to levae your heart felt note to the victims and survivorrs of this tragedy:

https://www.facebook.com/SandyHookChildren

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Was In A Bad Place Yesterday

I can feel myself slowly creeping into the dark hole full of anti social tendencies and demons attempting to convince my inner workings to give up and proceed without caution. Walking down the stairs backwards anticipating. The welcoming arms of the inescapable pain in which i am already a regular customer. screaming from the inside out wondering why there is always a storm cloud to hover over or around my sunny day. It seems to be the trickling affect of the crippling poison that is my relationship with everyone. there isn't one portion of this misrepresented life that i would want to share or wish upon anyone. i can feel the darkness becoming more and more unstable as each day passes, as each individually placed cluster fuck of a conversation is had. i don't want too lose the control i have over it, i have no idea how i will handle the reaction from those around me who don't know or don't understand. its not that they don't understand its they don't want to. they want to live in their cotton candy, plush surreal reality that they have created in their own unstable minds.